There’s a question that changes everything.
A question most people avoid because it feels too real, too revealing, too honest:

Where are you headed… really, where are you headed? 

For years, I lived at full speed building, creating, chasing, surviving, but not truly guiding the direction of my own life. Projects launched and died. Ideas scattered. Momentum came in bursts, but none of it had a center. None of it had roots.

Somewhere along the way, I realized I wasn’t steering anymore.
I wasn’t choosing.
I was drifting.

That moment, the one where you catch yourself living on autopilot, is the moment you decide whether to stay asleep or wake up. For me, waking up didn’t mean fixing my life. Fixing implies something’s broken, that you’re repairing an old version of yourself.

I didn’t want an upgrade.
I wanted a blueprint.

So I stopped trying to fix my life… and I started designing it.

And the first step wasn’t action — it was clarity.
Not motivation — but reflection.
Not discipline — but better questions.

Questions like:

• What do I value when no one is watching?

• What am I pretending not to know?

• What would my life look like if I stopped hesitating?

• Why do I fear the version of myself I could become?

Those questions became the foundation of a project called Designing My Perfect Life — 365 days, 365 questions, and a daily practice of intentional living.

Each day, I explore one question.
I sit with it.
I give my take — raw, honest, unpolished.
And then I ask it again, in a deeper way, so you can sit with it too.

This series is for anyone who feels stuck in the loop.
For anyone who knows they’re capable of more.
For anyone drifting and ready to reclaim their direction.

If you’ve been running full speed with no compass…
If your potential feels like it’s collecting dust…
If you’re ready to build instead of react…

Welcome.

This is where the noise gets quiet.
Where the pace slows.
Where clarity begins.
Where the real work starts.

So let me ask you the question that started this entire journey:

Where are you headed… really?

Let’s find out together.
One question at a time.

Welcome to Designing My Perfect Life.